Lessons from the Bluebirds

My wife and I have had the privilege the past few weeks to observe a pair of Eastern Bluebirds locate, build and settle a nest in our backyard. To our surprise, though the average female lays 3-4 eggs, our nest box had 6 beautiful baby blue eggs in it. We waited for 15 days to see if they all would hatch. Mommy bird spent a lot of time keeping the eggs warm. Then, the day came. All 6 eggs hatched. The past 18 days the babies have been crowded in their cozy nest box while each took their turn begging noisily for their meal worms fed from their mommy. We joyfully watched the little ones take their turns stepping on each other to get their chance to peek out their little round entrance. Today, the big day came when all 6 birds suddenly just flew away one by one.

We can only imagine what must go through a fledgling’s mind as it prepares to leave the nest. But what was so wonderful was the courage that each little baby had. Each one stuck it’s head out the hole of their nest box, looked each direction for a few seconds, then flapped its wings and in a matter of 2 seconds it was gone. There was no hesitation or delay. It was as if it looked back briefly at it’s warm, comfortable home since the day it hatched and then flew.

I think of the times we as humans find ourselves in our warm comfortable places in life. Though there is a fantastic world out there to learn, see and explore, we find it easier to sit in our nest rather than simply muster up the courage and face a new, exciting and unknown challenge. Helen Keller said, “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.”

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A HUMOR BREAK

While on vacation in California, a rancher from Oklahoma decided that since it was Sunday, he would find a church to attend.
He had heard comments about the great preaching at this one “upper crust”, “5 star” church but did not realize until he walked in the door that the church had a dress code.
In spite of wearing a suite jacket, the usher stopped him and said, “Sorry, sir, ties are required in order to worship here.” The man paused to decide what to do. Suddenly, he told the usher, “I’ll be right back.”
A few minutes later he walked back in wearing a set of jumper cables for a tie. He even tied a bow in the cables to make it look classy. The usher looked at him, puzzled what to say or what to do.
Finally, the usher tells the rancher, “OK, you can go in. But just don’t START anything!!”

LESSONS FROM ZACH

Recently, my granddaughter called and said, “Hey, papa, guess who I studied about in church today? Zach!” I replied, “Zach?” “Yes, He is Zach, Zach he is.” “Oh, Zacchaeus!” She replied, “Yes, Zach, he is!” She was so proud of learning the memorable children’s Bible character.
We can all learn lessons from Zach. In Luke 19, we read about Zacchaeus. Here are 3 simple lessons I glean from the story of Zach that helps us in every step of our faith journey.

1) No one is “too bad” to be saved.
Zach was considered to be one of the worst kind of sinners. He was a cheating tax collector and deeply hated by the people of that culture. As Christians we often see some people as sinners that are “too bad” to be saved. Come on, let’s be honest. What do you think of when you hear the word, “prostitute?” We often jump to a judgmental conclusion. A few years ago, my wife and I were asked to help serve Thanksgiving dinner to a difficult area of the city. It turned out we served free turkey dinners at the back door of a building to women as they got off work from dancing at a nude dance bar. We met one lady that asked for 5 meals. She stated that she was leaving work to check on her kids before going out all night to “work the streets.” She agreed to let us pray with her. As tears rolled down her cheeks she replied, “I don’t know how else to support my family.” That day she ask God to help her turn from her past.
My wife and I learned that day to quit judging and pre-judging others and that all of us can find salvation.
2) Jesus hung around sinners.
Jesus wasn’t afraid to go to Zach’s house and hang out with him. I realize that life is rough for all of us and that our focus often becomes about survival. But when is the last time we started reaching out to our neighbors and other hurting people in the world and develop a relationship with them. Not just a “meet at Starbucks” relationship, but a “come to my house” relationship.
3) A converted person is a changed person.
Zach changed his life that day he met Jesus. How often we seek to trust Christ with our lives yet we are not willing to change. If we are truly tired of living a life of struggles and problems, we must be willing to change from living in fear to living with faith and trust.
I hope that you will sense God’s strength and peace in your life as you learn lessons from Zach.

TOW THE LINE

I am a firm believer that one of the elements of a life centered with faith is courage. Courage comes from having faith in God even when all evidence around us says we are alone and all is lost. Whenever I face a problem or situation that requires faith and courage, I remind myself to simply face squarely with the issue and “tow the line.” Rather than sit around and complain, worry and take on the victim attitude, I utilize the acronym “T-O-W” to get through.

T-rust
O-bey
W-orship

TRUST– We must trust even when everything around us is crumbling, I cannot cave in to a negative attitude. I must trust God no matter what. I keep on trusting through every circumstance of life.Proverbs 3:5 reminds us to simply, “Trust the Lord with all your heart.” No matter what, trust God.

OBEY– When things do not go according to our plans, we often choose to take control of things and basically tell God, “take Your hands off. I’ll handle this.” When we reach the point we feel God is not in control, we must not bend to taking control, but rather obey God by following where He leads.
Several years ago, I moved my family 1600 miles to take a new job. Shortly after moving, the position fell apart and we ended up having to leave the job. Even though I felt like cursing God, we obeyed His leading through it all.. We lost nearly everything. We had nothing left. Too say that I questioned God is putting it mildly. It just didn’t make any sense why God would put my family through all of that. But now that I look back on the incident, I realize that if we had never moved I would have never connected with a specific person that was able to get me in the job I am at today.  I’ve now been in this position 18 years and it all is because our family chose to obey God even when things didn’t make sense.

WORSHIP– Even when the storms of life are raging all around us, it is important to continue to praise and worship God through it all. The lyrics of a song by Hillsong remind us that even when life hurts like hell, we must still continue to worship and praise God as loudly as we can.

If you are facing a difficult valley in your life and you feel like throwing in the towel, just TOW the line anyway. Trust, Obey and Worship God through it all.

TROUBLEMAKERS

Let’s be real. Life’s journey can be difficult at times and our faith can be tried simply because of difficult people who are trying to suck the joy out of life. If I can be open and candid, growing up, I heard this statement many times. “If you don’t have anything good to say about someone, then say nothing.” I wish life was that simple. Honestly, there are some people along life’s journey that can really be a pain in the backside. Even as a pastor or active church leader, difficult people will have a downward pull on our faith. The negativity can cause you to nearly want to give up on church. If we are around it frequently it can poison our hearts and minds.
     In 2 Samuel 2:1-2 (NIV) we find David faced with an interesting issue. “Now a troublemaker named Sheba son of Bicri, a Benjamite, happened to be there. He sounded the trumpet and shouted, “We have no share in David, no part in Jesse’s son! Every man to his tent, O Israel!” So all the men of Israel deserted David to follow Sheba…”
    Have you ever been blindsided by a “troublemaker” that seems to have a goal of ruining your life? How do you handle them? We can’t just snap our fingers and make them disappear. But we can pray for them. We can search for reasons why perhaps God put them in our life. After all, Romans 5 reminds us that “we can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance.” Next time a troublemaker comes into your life…rejoice…they may be just exactly what you need!